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The Shyness in Children - What Causes It?

Kids who feel shy tend to avoid social situations, which makes them less likely to develop friendships. They also tend to be quiet and withdrawn, which can cause them to miss out on opportunities for learning and growing socially.


This article will help you understand what causes it and how to deal with it.


There are several reasons why kids might be shy. One reason is that they may not yet have developed the skills needed to interact with others. Another reason is that they may have experienced trauma or abuse as a child. Still another reason is that they may simply lack confidence. Why Do Kids Become Shy?


Shyness is often caused by social anxiety. Social anxiety is when people feel anxious in social situations. This feeling of anxiety can cause them to avoid certain situations, such as speaking up in class or asking questions at parties.

What Are Some Common Symptoms of Shyness?


There are several symptoms of shyness. These include being quiet, avoiding eye contact, not wanting to speak in front of others, having trouble making friends, and being afraid of rejection.

What Can Parents Do To Help Their Child Be More Social?


If your child has been diagnosed with social anxiety disorder, there are things you can do to help them overcome their shyness. One thing parents can do is encourage their children to participate in activities where they will meet new people. Another thing parents can do is make sure their children feel comfortable when meeting new people. This includes helping them find ways to relax before an activity begins.

Is There A Cure For Shyness?


No, there isn't a cure for shyness. However, there are things you as a parent can do to help your child overcome his or her shyness. Parents should try to understand why their child feels shy and then work together to find solutions. Parents can follow a simple DIY process to consistently work towards helping their child:


  1. Shyness Discovery - Identify social situations the child is avoiding.

  2. Build Exposure Plan -Come up with a plan to expose your child to each situation systematically over a period of time

  3. Implement -Implement the plan and execute it in a regimented fashion, consistently .

  4. Observer, Record & Repeat - Observe and analyze if your plan is working out in the child overcoming the situation that he was avoiding earlier.

  5. Take Expert Help - If the child is not responding to the issue, take help from Experts.


At Constellor, we have dealt with thousands of children in helping them overcome their shyness and transforming them into confident and happy children with strong communication skills. To know more about the DIY technique listen-in to our webinar here.




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